维拉的双重生活

自从有了微薄，这里就荒芜了。生活也无外乎是日复一日的挣扎和探索，茫然与忙碌。

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As your child's second year begins, take some time to think about your relationship with your partner. Caring for an infant can wreak havoc on couples. You may find yourselves bickering a lot or just not connecting the way you used to. Don't despair — it takes time to adjust to having another person around. Now that your baby-turned-toddler is becoming less dependent, make a point of getting away to do adult things, just the two of you.
Nine ways to make time for your mate after the baby arrives
Strive for a real date night
Make a date night at home
Get creative
Read your mate a love letter
Buy season tickets
Treat weekends like weekends
Create some post-work rituals
Plan special routines
Play games
A final note: Make time for yourself, too

"This morning I found I missed you call last night around 2:30am. I really didnt hear the ring bell. I was too tired. I went to sleep immidiatly when my head touched pillows. Did u remember, before you liked to give me a call at late night. And we can chat lots of time about lots of topics. But now sometimes it doesnt happen more. Lots of call I got at midnight is just to let me send you a cup of water = )"

要告别的，岂止是，11个春秋的花样年华...

-束河的水中倒影 (Jun 18, 2010)

这个电影，真是史上最装腔作势的改编和杜撰。原创的内容已经全数消失。老徐的气质配上那些行头，真是杯具。

所以说，有没有才华，不是标签贴出来的！

十几天前的某个周五傍晚7点半，我在发完最后一个Email时，用Casual的语气给海外的新老板在邮件的末尾写上: I wish you were not in office now, it's weekend.

现在想来，我真是愚蠢。怎么会？怎么会在混迹职场若干年以后，竟然犯下这么低级的错误啊！

最开心的，莫过于吃法航公务舱的餐饮。就连Lunch也上足四道，从鹅肝到最后的甜点。就连我要杯红酒，也问“勃艮第？还是波尔多？”

你说我有什么理由不开心？即便入境时法国女警存心想刁难，也不值一提了。都差点忘了，昨天下午才拿到的签证，之前经历了种种意外。差点还以为下午三点拿到签证，晚上11点半就要启程。这行程，也太紧凑了！

夜里十点，又开始饥肠辘辘...

我听到一些很好的消息。虽然隐隐约约，会有点担忧。

半岛上的暖风如此温润，以至于，我吃着同仁请客的晚餐，仍然满心思想独自去码头上闲逛。